Today marks the third anniversary of letting go of the emotional hold that my stalker had on me. I simply turned my back and walked away from her stupid antics, and I didn’t lose a thing, except a silly mosquito buzzing around my head…her. Everything else remained the same. Life is so much sweeter now.
Ignoring the stalker has made more room in my emotional headspace, so I no longer fear opening my door to find the stalker standing there with a gun. I was told that it was a very real possibility for a long time. Now, I feel zero fear, because I have taken away her power to affect me.
This decision ….the one to start ignoring her, was so powerful….so empowering and liberating that I can barely even describe its emotional impact. She has continued her nonsense on a myriad of levels. I have simply ignored it. This feels much better…..and nothing else has changed. Nothing.
This video explains my feelings perfectly. It’s called, “Forgive Assholes – Have a Little Faith.”