To intentionally lie and hurt those to whom we profess  love, is wrong.   Yet, to intentionally hurt and lie to *anyone*….not just the people we love…but *anyone* is wrong.    Perhaps the  people that do this come into our lives so that the universe can test our strength and cause us to question ourselves .

 Perhaps they are here to teach us lessons about the true nature of love, because if someone mistreats you in that way, lies to you…takes advantage of you…misleads you….and you still love them after it is all over, you know that what you feel for them is real love…barring unhealthy dependency issues and the rest of it.        

In contrast, these things can highlight our drive to cherish those who are sincere and loving,  and cause us to have a deeper appreciation for them…. OR, we  might cross paths with these people  so we can reach out and touch  the hearts and souls of those that choose to malign us.  Perhaps we are being called upon to gently  help them find their loving paths to make this a better, more loving planet.

They say love is blind…but it isn’t. Love is perfect sight. Love is the ability to see a person, I mean really see him-his strengths, his weaknesses, his flaws, all his past triumphs and mistakes-and view that person not as the world says you’re supposed to see him, but as you see him… that special someone you know you will always embrace, body and soul, no matter what anyone else says or thinks.